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26th February 2016

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Glad people are seeing the truth.

Please read up on how @awdplace is an abuser, about how he harassed @lovelydagger and sexually assaulted her. AWD even admitted to masturbating onto her while she was in bed without spoken consent on his NSFW blog, @madcatterstudio.

Please don’t let him continue to do this to other women. Stay away from this guy, especially if you’re a lady who is Asian and/or in the furry art community. Daggy isn’t the first woman he’s creeped on but we can only try and make sure she’s the last he deludes into thinking he’s such a nice guy.

This is the guy that made that Star Wars Goofy comic I see on my dash like everyday.

I don’t care how funny it is, he’s a predator and keeps getting the slip just because he draws nice stuff. And I don’t throw a term like predator around loosely.

I regret ever having associated with him.

Wait wait! Is this the same guy who made the Dr. Wily show??? This guy is seriously involved in the Mega Man community…

He is, that’s how I met him and how some artists I know have met him. He was very nice to me and artists like RNN. Many people still don’t know, especially with his sugar and honey facade. I was sure shocked when I found out.

I wouldn’t post stuff like this unless I’m sure of it, I hate bringing people’s attention.

Even if he’s done nothing wrong to my circle personally, it doesn’t erase what kind of person he really is.

I apologize for the following wall-of-text, but I feel it necessary to add my own story to this in case people are still skeptical about whether or not AWD is as good of a guy he tries to make himself out to be.

My stake in all of this goes back two years ago when I first met Daggy. She was still in a relationship with AWD at the time. I use to think AWD was a pretty cool guy, but over time certain things kept happening that raised some suspicions. There were moments when Daggy would be happy, but then her internet would go out unexpectedly, and she’d come back sounding shaken or upset and wouldn’t tell any of us why. One day when she was in a Skype call with us (my bf, two of her friends, and me) she accidentally left her mic on when AWD decided to start throwing a temper tantrum in the background. We could hear everything, and we all quickly lost respect for him. The way he was treating Daggy was appalling, and our suspicions were confirmed. He was verbally abusive, and whenever anything upset him, he’d take it out on her. Over the following months, we all made sure she knew we’d support her, and the things she opened up about sent chills down my spine. We found out he’d also been physically abusive, leaving bruises on her arms on more than one occasion. The things AWD would do and say to her mirrored my own horrible experiences with a highly abusive, sociopathic ex.

With the help and support of her friends, Daggy eventually gathered the courage to leave AWD for her own safety and sanity. Since the breakup, AWD has been decorating his Twitter and FA account with pity posts, telling everyone how heartbroken and lonely he was. It was his attempt to make Daggy look like the villain. Because he’s popular and preemptively made himself look like the victim, she was too afraid to come forward to tell her side of the story until recently.

Exposing AWD was a long time coming. He freaked out and blocked everyone, denying everything and refusing to be held accountable for what he’d done. To our shock, but not to our surprise, more and more female artists came out of the woodwork to tell their own terrifyingly similar stories regarding AWD. One girl in particular knew AWD since high school, and he got in trouble with the law for threatening to kill the girl he was with at the time. Women haven’t been the only victims of AWD’s antics either. He’s lost a lot of male friends over petty disagreements. He even attacked one of his best friends because he was jealous the guy got his own show. All in all, AWD is living garbage. A lot of people in the professional industry do not like him for their own reasons. Daggy and I (along with countless others now) are working hard to prevent him from taking advantage of anyone else, as he’s currently been trying to buddy-up with female artists who are unaware of the danger he poses.

He deleted his attack on Daggy (a tumblr post where he doesn’t even deny sexually assaulting her), but numerous people have already archived it. To this day, he still calls Daggy a liar, and refuses to admit to what he’s done. Rather than seeking psychological help for his deplorable behavior, he has chosen to sweep it all under the rug and focus his efforts on re-gaining the follower #’s he’s lost.

If you are an artist or anyone delving into the entertainment industry, I HIGHLY advise you distance yourself from AWD at all costs.

To wrap this post up, I’d like to quote the amazing Laci Green regarding victims of abuse…

“… I often hear people demand survivors to report/press charges to handle their sexual assault; these people want to believe that justice will be served if only victims would just go through the system. But the system doesn’t work. It does. Not. Work. Our system repeatedly, consistently, faithfully protects predators and abusers. Very rarely is there justice. And in the grueling process of pressing charges, we ask survivors to relive their trauma over and over - not just to a court of law, but to a court of public opinion. We ask survivors to undergo character assassination, victim blaming, moralizing, and to go up against people who care more about preserving wealth, status, and power – for months and sometimes years while the case is open…” - Laci Green

Re-blogging for the day crowd

Someone or something deleted my reblog. Ooohh, I wonder who?

Reblogging again. Nobody will stop me from reblogging this

Same, my reblog was messed with. That is NOT okay.

There is already efforts to take this post down, probably by AWD himself. The image has already been stripped.

I know what to do when abusers try damage control.

https://archive.is/3e0HU

Wait you guys are talking about the joyful AWD of all people and this girl daggy?

I’m kinda with AWD but I think he need therapy more then going against him and I heard he was kind of a cunt but throwing bricks at him would make him lose his mind.

People should distance away from him but at the same time get in his head for he might have problems with himself if he gets down to 0 I might be his only follower.

LOLNO

You want to white knight the guy, fine. However, along with Daggy, he fucked over a lot of people and he went through a lot of trouble trying to put up such a good guy act while accusing everyone of lying. I’ve been following him until he was outed, and the evidence is there.

So no, I will not be giving him any mercy points for being a dickhead. He spent 5 months pissing and moaning about how Daggy “broke his heart” and he has been telling this side of the story since then. It wasn’t until Daggy and 04range outed what an anus the guy was that he started to fall apart.

So yeah, go ahead and be his fan and protect him from these meanies he has no one else to blame but himself for being pissed at him.

Oh, and Dickman, don’t bother deleting this. I already archived it.

The problem with abusers is that they use fear and control to keep everyone quiet about what they’ve done. They will apologize, and beg forgiveness. The problem is that a little while after that they go back to their old ways. From everything I’ve been reading AWD is a habitual abuser. He may not even see what he’s doing as abuse, but that doesn’t make it right.

Then you have the people who say… “(insert name) just wants attention. Why didn’t she or (insert more names) come forward before now about it?” They believe that this person did nothing wrong and that if abuse were true that the victim would have spoken about it long before now.

The problem with abusers is that as I said previously they use fear and control to keep their victims quiet about the abuse. Sometimes to the point the victim is brainwashed in to believing that they are at fault. They think somewhere deep down if they hadn’t done whatever triggered the abuse that everything would be okay.

It’s not okay. Anyone who abuses another person or animal needs help. I had a friend a long time ago who killed his girlfriend’s kitten in front of her because he was so angry about something petty. She was afraid, and kept telling me that he did it because he loved her and that she should be happy it wasn’t her that he did that to, but instead a dumb animal. He continued on killing animals in front of her, crushing them, killing them with vacuum cleaners, slamming them to the floor or wall. Every time she would make excuses for him. Say it was her fault. She would tell myself and her friends that at least he wasn’t hitting her. It was okay, because he wasn’t hitting her. She convinced herself that it was okay for him to take out his rage on whatever else was around because he wouldn’t touch her because he loved her. This same man ended up putting her in the hospital with 30 stab wounds, a fractured collarbone, and cut out her eye.

It took his going to jail to stop his cycle of abuse. It took 5 years for her to admit to herself that he was abusive to her. A person doesn’t have to hurt you physically to be abusing you. Some wait until it’s too late, and some get help, but almost always victims wonder if they were good enough, pretty enough, worth enough, for the abuser. That if they had done something different that it would have turned out differently.

So, to anyone who may be dating, living with, or know of someone who is routinely yelled at, not allowed to leave the house without their boyfriend/girlfriend (yes, females can abuse men as well), or is covering bruises up with makeup or making excuses to what happened… Give them a safe haven to talk. Don’t judge. Don’t try to force them out of the situation. (It can have repercussions such as the victim blaming you or telling the abuser and being barred from seeing/talking/associating with you.) If it is too much tell someone even if you have to get the police involved. There is probable cause when it comes to bruises, cuts, unexplained or strange injuries…

The abuser doesn’t need all the therapy and kindness… It’s the victim who needs it. White knighting or giving someone the benefit of the doubt is just enabling this type of behavior. To stop an abuser you have to stop enabling them to continue this vicious cycle.

I’m sorry for the wall of text, but abusive assholes don’t need help they need jail. You know why? Therapy tells them… “It’s not your fault… It’s the fault of *a bad childhood, television, etc.*”. So, they get to place the blame elsewhere like they always do!

The first step in getting out of an abusive relationship is allowing yourself to admit to yourself that you are being abused, and not making excuses for the abuser.

^ Re-blogging for that flawless commentary regarding why abuse victims often stay silent. ^

While Daggy was still with AWD, a lot of us (her friends) could tell something wasn’t quite right, but she was too afraid to say what was really going on. She didn’t want to tarnish any bonds because she knew a lot of her own friends, reputable artists and musicians, respected AWD and admired his work. Even I originally thought he was a cool guy, because I assumed if anyone was able to be with a girl as sweet as Daggy, they must be doing something right.

Boy was I wrong, and I’m glad to know she’s in a much better, much safer situation now. I certainly can’t blame Daggy for being scared back then, because it could’ve put her in a lot of danger. She had to flee while AWD was at work, because she knew what his reaction would’ve been.

What makes me ill to my stomach is watching AWD continually try to hide all of this from the public (like having peoples’ posts about him deleted off of Tumblr, and hiding peoples’ comments on Twitter). He still refuses to admit to what he’s done. He still says everyone he’s wronged is lying and being mean to him for no reason. These are not the signs of an abuser trying to right their wrongs. This is someone sick in the head who adamantly believes they’ve done nothing wrong, all while trying to silence and discredit everyone they’ve hurt.

At this rate, AWD is going to be the next Psyguy or TomPreston. I’m surprised he doesn’t have his own ED article by now. Even one of his ex girlfriends (not Daggy) moved to another country just to get away from him.

Lmao!! Omg seriously this amuses me! You’re all high and mighty, yet really it all comes down to is that you heard one side of the story and you’re blowing steam out your ass for some SJW self righteous rant.

Let me introduce myself! I’m the ex, who by your supposed recollection (despite not knowing Andrew at all) moved overseas to get away from him.

Yeah, you’re full of shit. I moved to New Zealand after meeting my husband online via WoW. Or maybe you mean the other ex who moved to Japan for a job. Oh, the one who posted on her tumblr that she doesn’t believe any of these accusations, the same as me.

Both of us having known Andrew in person and are both actively supporting him in private because we don’t want your bloody lynch mob coming after our children and families. If this was a ‘dire warning’ then why are you approving of all the ddos attacks and continuing on with this OCD like stalking of Andy. Andrew has not contacted Diane since September at all. She has no need to be scared. Actually, she feels just fine repaying his mother for the vast amounts of money she was loaned to pay off her debts! So scared!

This really comes down to a vindictive girlfriend, who didn’t like that her sugar daddy boyfriend, that had paid for her to sit around and play video games all day and draw while, he went off to work, spent his money and lived rent free, decided to move on.

But hey, this is tumblr, so we make the most outlandish claim we can to get top victim points and he can’t defend himself or anything without looking bad. Oh and donate to my patreon!

The funny thing is that it’s not just me and Jill in Andrew’s corner. The rest of his exes are literally going ‘wtf!?!? No way!’ Even despite those that had bad break ups with him.

To be honest, if anything, I should thank you because you’ve brought all of us back to Andy to help him, as well as allowing these other women in his life to create bonds of friendship.

Am I an abuse enabler? No, as I’ve been in an actual abusive relationship, where I’ve been stripped down to nothing, had nothing and actually been physically beaten (not by Andrew I’ll just put in here for you stupid sheep). Diane wants you to believe he had all the power but anyone who has been in a relationship with Andrew knows that they wear the pants in a relationship with him.

So yeah, if you want to go ahead and keep perpetuating the lies that all these other women have been through this, by all means, go ahead. But know you are a dishonest liar with an agenda.

Oh and so you know, it wasn’t Andy dealing with getting the post down, it was a lot of his supporters correlating efforts to do so. You know, actual people who know him other then on the Internet.

Cheers!

Just so you know, the girl that was his ex that moved away worked in animation and moved to Japan, not yourself.

Oh, you mean the other ex that is currently supporting Andrew and I talk to on a daily basis about all this nonsense?

We weren’t sure which one they were insinuating, to be honest, but thanks for clearing that up.

Regardless, having known Andrew for nearly 15 years and dating off and on for 3-4 of those, my point still stands that I don’t, for a second, believe the allegations. He may be a bit socially awkward but that’s like 95% of the Internet these days.

Source: raspberrymentats